What a month!
On top of preparing my move from London back to Italy, I managed to smash my phone and arrange postage of my precious books with the worst courier ever.
Despite being sure I wanted to leave London it was actually super tough. No surprises, my housemates became like a family to me and I already miss them lots.
Moving on to the things that went well, I’m happy with my language learning for October.
Amidst the mess of my daily activities, I found a little peace in my study time. Whenever I felt overwhelmed or simply like I wanted to cry for a whole day I took a break and watched a video in French, or practised some Swedish with an app. In the most stressful month of the past year, language learning didn’t feel like an obligation. It actually became my way to cool down and cope with anxiety.
This was possible thanks to a slight change I made in the way I organise my learning goals.
Benefits of mind mapping and tracking achievements
You might remember that in September I went goal free. Unexpectedly I studied consistently and even went back to learning French regularly.
At first, I didn’t give it much thought. In October, though, I started to see some patterns.
It surely is important to have some sort of plan instead of just randomly piling up unrelated bits of knowledge. However, publicly declaring that I will learn 100 words on Memrise or post a sentence on Instagram every day stressed me.
I have been struggling with anxiety for many years now. Among my coping strategies, regular habits and being organised have been the most effective. So why did planning my language learning in detail only worsen things?
That is because anxiety also makes me insecure and hyper self-conscious. Therefore, writing down accurate goals didn’t make me feel accountable: it made me feel like everyone was looking at me underachieving. Of course, rationally I know it’s not true and no one is here to judge me. But if you try to talk some reason into an anxious person… well, good luck with that.
Shortly, I needed something that made me feel comfortably organised, without making me feel constrained.
To begin with, I stopped setting goals that are too rigid and specific. No more “learn x words, listen to x episodes of a podcast”.
Instead, I write down a mind map of the things I would like to do during the month, in no particular order. There is always time to add something new, delete something that is not working. Then, when I start my study session I pick one of the activities and work on it.
Then, in the evenings, I record in my diary the achievements of the day. French: Clozemaster, Duolingo, one video. Swedish: Clozemaster, Duolingo, Babbel review. Something like this.
Creating this habit of doing a little bit every day and tracking it afterwards improved my results and motivation.
I don’t feel stressed about language learning anymore, I study without putting pressure on myself and this way I’m learning more and more effectively.
OK, Let’s move on to the actual learning bit!
What did I use to study in October?
– A few more lessons on Lingoda (you can read my review here)
– The free 7 days course from Selfrench – great for learning new vocabulary and can be adapted to every level.
– Some episodes of FrenchBlaBla‘s podcast and some videos from Comme une française
– The exercises from TV5 Monde
– Videos from Solange te parle and Cyprien (thanks Katie for recommending him!) & some French music
– I switched to French when catching up with a friend
– Babbel for vocabulary review and studying new grammar
– New videos from Clara Henry
French & Swedish
– I kept my streak with Clozemaster and Duolingo practising every evening.
Activities I want to do in November
– 2 more lessons on Lingoda
– Practice on TV5 Monde
– Listen to podcasts
– Conversation with a friend
– I started taking weekly lessons with an online teacher, I’m so looking forward to this!
– Study on Babbel as I won’t renew my subscription from January
– Reinforce the grammar topics I feel insecure about
– Work through the Rivstart books
French & Swedish
– Go through my notebooks to review grammar and vocabulary
– Clozemaster and Duolingo every evening
– Listen to music & watch some videos
What are you going to study in November? What works best for you: setting very specific goals or a more flexible planning of your studies?
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